First week as a Middle School teacher=done. Overall, it went really well. I enjoy being back in the classroom and it is fun to watch kids learn and grasp new things. But, at the same time, I do have a handful of kids who enjoy being naughty, difficult and lazy. Those ones are hard to deal with. I was never one of those kids who just didn’t care, acted up or continually showed up late. It is so frustrating to watch them fail. I know some of them are coming from tough homes and so their acting out has a root, but still, it is hard to see them make bad choices. And, for me, it is hard not to take it personally when kids act out or just don’t want to pay attention in class. But, I just need to remember that I can’t reach them all. There are always going to be a few who just don’t want to let their guard down. Still, I wish they’d be willing to adjust their attitudes…getting passing grades really isn’t that hard if you give just a bit of effort. At the same time, I am having to adjust my attitude/expectations and realize that I just won’t reach some kids. And, that is ok. All I can do is do my best for those who are willing to try.
In any case, thinking about attitude made me think of the Charles Swindoll quote about attitude which I think is really neat. Always a good reminder.
THE IMPORTANCE OF ATTITUDE
by Charles R. Swindoll
Philippians 2:3-5
This may shock you, but I believe the single most significant decision I can make on a day-to-day basis is my choice of attitude. It is more important than my past, my education, my bankroll, my successes or failures, fame or pain, what other people think of me, or say about me, my circumstances, or my position. The attitude I choose keeps me going or cripples my progress. It alone fuels my fire or assaults my hope. When my attitudes are right, there’s no barrier too high, no valley too deep, no dream too extreme, no challenge too great for me.
Yet we must admit that we spend more of our time concentrating and fretting over the things that can’t be changed than we do giving attention to the one that we can change, our choice of attitude. Stop and think about some of the things that suck up our attention and energy, all of them inescapable: the weather, the wind, people’s action and criticisms, who won or lost the game, delays at airports or waiting rooms, x-ray results, gas and food costs.
Quit wasting energy fighting the inescapable and turn your energy to keeping the right attitude. Those things we can’t do anything about shouldn’t even come up in our minds; the alternative is ulcers, cancer, sourness, depression.
Let’s choose each day and every day to keep an attitude of faith and joy and belief and compassion.
Take charge of your own mind!
(Taken from Charles R. Swindoll, Day by Day with Charles Swindoll (Nashville: W Publishing Group, 2000). Copyright © 2000 by Charles R. Swindoll, Inc. All rights reserved. Used by permission).